Seeking Breathing Space…

 In Reflections

“To understand one’s world, one must sometimes turn away from it! To serve better, one must briefly hold it at a distance. Where can the necessary solitude be found, the long breathing space in which mind gathers its strength and takes stock of its courage?” —Albert Camus

Out In The Country by Three Dog Night came up in my music feed recently. I hadn’t heard that 70’s song in years but was struck by how timely the lyrics were for the stresses of today and the grief many of us are processing from world events.

“Whenever I need to leave it all behind or feel the need to get away, I find a quiet place, far from the human race out in the country.”

— Out In The Country, Three Dog Night

As the lyrics and the Albert Camus opening quote remind us, sometimes we must turn away from the world for a time to gain the necessary distance to process what’s been coming at us or to discern what’s next after a major change (joyful or traumatic).

For those blessed with the time, money, and transportation to get to a beloved breathing space in the country or on the coast, a few days away in solitude in this special place can breathe new life into us, so we’re ready to move forward upon returning home.

“Whenever I feel them closing in on me or need a bit of room to move, when life becomes too fast, I find relief at last, out in the country.”

— Out In The Country, Three Dog Night

Sometimes we can’t get out in the country or even out of our home.  In those times, we need to get creative. Perhaps go on a virtual journey through a guided meditation or a nature video that explores the wilderness we yearn to be in. Or sit quietly on a bench in a local park listening to the birds sing or the leaves rustling in the breeze.

What’s your favorite breathing space? How can you take 5–30-minute mini journeys there to gain some of the benefits without the time and dollar commitment a trip would entail?

If you were to go to a breathing space today (in your mind’s eye), what would you be seeking space from or perspective about? Can you give yourself this gift today?

May you be blessed with breathing space when you need it. And may the peace, clarity, and perspective to be found there nourish your body, mind, and spirit.

Art Offers Space…

“What art offers is space—a certain breathing room for the spirit.”

—John Updike

Is there an art museum you’ve been longing to visit? Perhaps this is the week for that adventure!

A Day Away

“Each person deserves a day away in which no problems are confronted, no solutions searched for. Each of us needs to withdraw from the cares which will not withdraw from us.”

― Maya Angelou

Break Away

“Is there a place you can go to break away for a little while? If you haven’t yet built your tree house, it’s never too late to start.”

― Gina Greenlee

TRANSFORMATION

The day is warm and cloudless,
the lake a trembling blue

kayakers glide by
seemingly without effort

a light breeze, soft,
like angel’s breath.

I read and write, relaxed,
while ever so slowly

like a miracle you can
actually watch happen,

without even trying,
my skin is turning brown.

 

―Charles Rossiter, as featured in The Wonder of Small Things: Poems of Peace & Renewal, Edited by James Crews

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